Newbie wants to experience something new

I am a 43 y/o married woman looking for a discreet encounter. I am looking for an AA woman or White woman between ages of 30 and 47 no bigger than a size 16, and no shorter than 5' 4" tall, who knows how to use toys, and loves to suck nipples. I would like to allow her to explore me, and allow me to explore her using toys, and nipples, masturbation fun. I do not want to perform oral sex whatsoever, want to keep things safe to ensure complete safe sexual fun. This is something I have always wanted to do. Not looking for a relationship, just want to have this fantasy. Respond to email if this is something you are interested in.